Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens The 7 Habits Tree The 3 habit at the root of the tree are your "character" - your private victory Be Proactive Begin with the end in mind Put first things first We talked earlier about paradigms - What are paradigms? Let's review the paradigms from the first habits: Habit 1: Be Proactive Common Paradigm: "This is just the way things are and I can't do much about it." Leadership Paradigm: "I am free to choose and ultimately responsible for my happiness." Key Concepts: Freedom to Choose Proactive and Reactive Circle of Control vs. Circle of No Control Carry Your own Weather Change Agent Habit 2: Begin with the End In Mind Common Paradigm: "I can't predict how my life will turn out, so I just go with the flow." Leadership Paradigm: "Clearly defining my vision and purpose in life will make all the difference." Key Concepts: Mental crea...